Practical Theology for Women – The necessity of apologies

This is a truly excellent post about apologising and public ministry. Wendy Alsup says,

A number of leaders, some with well read books on humility and/or the gospel, head ministries under public accusation for situations in which members claim to be hurt by their pastoral care. I don’t understand at all why I haven’t heard leaders who seem to be able to well articulate the gospel rush to correct and repair with those who have been hurt by their actions. To be perfectly honest, I think the lack of humble repentance among conservative leaders is the number 1 thing that undermines the ministry. People like to criticize Rachel Held Evans or other egalitarians. Lots of people like to label those making accusations against well-known ministry leaders as bitter. And if they aren’t doing one of those two things, then they are just silent. In fact, those seem to be the three main reactions I see to public criticism/outcry over issues of spiritual abuse.

She finished off with this advice:

Folks, don’t hang around ministry leaders who can’t acknowledge sin and repair with those they’ve hurt. They aren’t safe leaders, and they need to study the gospel on their own for a while.

Of course, there is stacks in between. You should read it. I was rebuked by it, and totally encouraged.

Some relevant Bible:

Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another. Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil. Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need. Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

Ephesians 4:25-32

The whole chapter is good, as well as chapter 3.

I commend this post to you. Please read it, and tell me what you think. 🙂


2 thoughts on “Practical Theology for Women – The necessity of apologies

  1. Dave Pitt says:

    Hi Gabby, yes a great blog post! Reminds me of the Peacemaking principles. Praying for all of us (including me) to be humble and quick to apologize.

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